kevlar

Pretty chilled out person in my personal time that enjoys simple things most of the time but is always open to new experiences if it could be a bit of fun and takes me out of the comfort zone. The comfort zone is ok and a healthy portion of it is required to keep a balance in your life but in order to have a healthy balance you also need to push yourself to achieve things that you perhaps don't think you would be good at or don't do just because you have never tried it. Will try most things once within reason. I like treating people I care about more than I care about treating myself to be honest and am the most loyal friend to my true pals that have shown themselves as true friends. I will back someone up i care about 100% and stand by there side whatever.

I have no time for false people who say one thing and do another. I will not suffer fools easily would be the term of phrase I believe.

I am at a stage in my career that I work 7 days a week constantly but not because I am addicted to work or don't have a choice in the matter, its just that the opportunity is there and since finishing an 11 year relationship last year after a few years of being on and off I have focused on keeping myself busy instead of having too much time to think about it which used to lead to me doubting myself and forgetting the reason we split up in the first place. I'm sure there is plenty people out there who have been in a relationship for that length of time and it has taken a few attempts to finally make the break. It was made harder by the fact I was step dad to 2 amazing boys. My eldest still speaks to me every day but the youngest isn't really bothered about me unfortunately although I have tried and left it with telling him I will always be there for him if he needs me.

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I believe the most important thing about a first date is being somewhere that you feel comfortable and can spend the time able to talk to one another and not be distracted with too much stuff going on around you.

I would always ask what would be the preference of the woman initially, but if they would rather I chose then I would ask what their first choice of food is and treat them to a lovely meal somewhere that does that type of food well. I'm not too fussy about what food I'm eating, as long as it is quality ingredients cooked well and my date is happy.

Freelance Construction Site Manager

Cooking. Especially Xmas dinners, Entertaining friends, Holidays - Although it obviously hasn't been an option for a while now, Treating myself to new clothing, Looking after my mum and dad in their older years makes me happy whether it be buying them nice food at weekends or giving my mum money to go and treat herself to clothes or take her pals out for food or anything she fancies.